I thought it is necessary to speak about listening.
Listening is usually the most difficult skill to master by foreign students. When you speak to native speakers, you don't usually have difficulties talking but the problem arises when they reply, you don't understand...
You put on the TV to watch an American film or TV series and you don't understand.
But how come I can speak quite fluently but I am not able to understand a single word I hear??? This is what you normally ask yourselves.
Well, the answer is very simple you don't listen enough. It's hard to accept but it's the truth, in order to be able to understand native speakers you need to practise much much more your listening.
I'll give a clear example. My 2 year-old daughter is starting to speak now, she can put together two or three words now and she can transmit very simple messages related with her needs and priorities. She's now starting to speak, however, she's been able to understand us for more than a year. She does not understand everything completely, but I dare say she understands 80 % of what we say. And when she does not understand she doesn't care, she repeats what we say and laugh and probably next time she will understand what we say.
Why am I talking about my little girl now??
She's also learning a language and so are you. In my opinion we should all learn from her if we want to master a foreign language. Babies start listening to the language the will learn before they are able to utter a single word, they listen and listen for around a year and a half before they actually start saying their first words. Then, they start repeating the same words over and over again. They don't miss a chance to show off and let everybody know the new words they have learnt, when they don't understand something, they don't get frustrated or demotivated, instead they repeat what they hear without even understanding what they are saying but they are confident they will pick up the new words and one day will understand them.
So what is the lesson here:
1. Start listening more (and more and more).
2. Don't be demotivated if there are things you don't understand.
3. Learn to live happily with that level of "not knowing and not understanding".
4. Practise the new vocabulary, if you learn it you will be then able to recognise it.
5. Practise pronunciation, if you know how words are pronounced, it will be easier for you to recognise them.
6. Practise your speaking, the more you'll speak the more you'll listen.
7. Enjoy your learning experience because it can be lots of fun!!
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